Showing posts with label Parenting Tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Parenting Tips. Show all posts

Monday, August 23, 2010

The best ways to deal with your teenagers

dealing with teenagersAdolescence, the period between childhood and adulthood, is often a difficult time, both for parents and their children.

This is when young people establish an identity of their own, separate themselves from their parents, and create significant relationships outside their own families.

Many parents experience 'mourning' for this loss of their child as they adjust to the moody, obstinate person who has taken his or her place. Teenagers may also be mourning the loss of their own childhood and family relationships of earlier years.

It is important to keep the situation in perspective. Adolescence is an essential rite of passage which every adult has been through. Think back to your own teenage years: How did you rebel? What were your clothes like? Did your parents complain about the music you listened to? In short, were your experiences, attitudes and relationships really that much different from what's taking place with your own adolescent?

Parents' major task is to let teenagers grow up and become independent, learning to make the decisions that affect their own lives.

Limits need to be set, but within those boundaries there must be room for adolescents to spread their wings and get a sense of who they are and who they want to become. They will reject some excellent advice along the way - but that's part of growing up. Fortunately, many of the values parents instilled prior to adolescence will survive.

Below are some basic rules for parents that can help minimize the inevitable stresses that occur as teenagers assert themselves.

listenAlways listen, even when you're on different sides of the fence.

Don't confuse the thing that bothers you with the person who has done it.

At times you'll feel annoyed and angry by your teenager's behavior. Every parent does. It doesn't mean you've stopped loving your youngster. It probably means exactly the opposite - that you care. Keep your anger focused on their actions, not on them as human beings.

Avoid constant criticism, no matter how much your teenagers' behavior or appearance annoys you.

Just ignore insignificant incidents. With bigger issues, let them know that although you disagree, you respect their right to hold a different opinion.

Look for opportunities to pay honest compliments.

kidsTake an interest in what your teenager is doing.

When disagreements arise, try to find a compromise both sides can accept. At worst, you should agree to disagree.

Don't preach and don't nag. Be careful about saying things like, 'When I was your age'. You probably had more in common with your teenager than you'd care to admit.

Expect to become the target of blame - the one responsible for all their difficulties, not letting them grow up and have fun.

Don't take most of this criticism to heart. And don't give up on your teenager. Teenagers are watching, listening and learning more than you may think.

Extreme mood swings are quite normal at this age. Partly due to hormonal changes but also in response to the anxieties so common during this time of life.

By late adolescence most teenagers feel much more comfortable spending time with their parents. If you've treated them fairly and consistently, and given them room to grow, they will leave adolescence and enter adulthood with family ties intact.

Remember that your teens won't remember their infancy or early childhood years but they will remember their teenage years. Do your best to cultivate warm memories that both of you can appreciate down the road. And, to make remembering a little easier, don't forget to take pictures!

Top 5 Questions and Answers on "Deal With Your Teenagers"

1. Q: What are effective strategies for dealing with teenage rebellion?
Answer: Open communication, setting boundaries, and showing empathy can help.

2. Q: How can parents maintain a healthy relationship with their teenagers?
Answer: By actively listening, avoiding judgment, and finding common ground.

3. Q: What should parents do when their teenagers push boundaries?
Answer: Stay patient, provide guidance, and enforce consequences when necessary.

4. Q: How can parents support their teenagers' quest for independence?
Answer: Encourage responsible decision-making and grant appropriate freedoms.

5. Q: What role does understanding adolescence play in parenting teenagers?
Answer: Recognizing it as a normal developmental phase can help parents navigate challenges with greater empathy and patience.

Friday, October 23, 2009

Child's Motivation : Appreciation



When a child is small, it requires every small appreciation from its parents to do the right things. As a good parent, it becomes your responsibility to handle your child carefully. Children are very sensitive and so a parent must remain careful to make sure a child’s belief system is not infected with any illusionary or negative beliefs. What children believe at a young early age is what they preach all their lives. If beliefs are enforced on the child, irrespective of the belief being positive or negative, the future of the child can be affected severely by the act.

It is human nature that everyone loves to be appreciated and nurtured with love, care and affection. Children as a matter of fact get influenced faster than adults. They are really quick at grasping words, actions, habits, etc. If they are appreciated rightly at a very young age to make a mark of their own in the whole world, they can emerge as ‘revolutionaries’ or even as legendary personalities.

Now, the point is: What is the right way to build a child’s motivational system?

A child, when small, is finding him/her self-lost in the crystal maze and is trying to find answers to questions that ’seem’ to have no answer. A child requires a guide and there can be no better person than a well-educated parent to guide their children. The right way to build a child’s motivational system is to make him/her feel loved.

While you are asking your child to build a value system for him/her self, it is essential that you appreciate their efforts while they follow and apply every single part of their value system. This way, you are building a natural motivational system for your child. Is not a simple solution?

Related Health Articles:

01. Child's Global Fleshiness : (मुलांमधिल लट्ठपणाचा जागतिक रोग) - १
02. Child's Global Fleshiness : Child's Global Fleshiness : (मुलांमधिल लट्ठपणाचा जागतिक रोग) - २
03. Child's Global Fleshiness : How to measure weight? (वजन कसे मोजावे?) - ३
04. Kid's Breakfast (मुलांचा खाऊ )
05. Be aware about kid's fever (मुलांचे तापेपासून स्वंरक्षण)
06. ICU : Ice Cream Unit
07. A Solution on Bed Weting : Homeopathy (मुलांच्या बेड वेटिंगवर उपाय)
08. How to measure weight? (वजन कसे मोजावे?) - ३
09. Sweet Medicine on Maleriya (मलेरियावर गोड औषध)
10. Kids and Rules of Massage (मुले आणि मालिश करण्याचे नियम)
11. What is the importance of beauty sleep in your kid's life? (मुलांसाठी झोप किती महत्वाची?)
12. Anti Oxidents : Keep Disease Away (एंटी आँक्सिडेंटस : दूर ठेवा आजारपणाच्या तक्रारी)
13. Milk : The Best Food Forever! (दूध एक उत्तम आहार)
14. If someone afflicted at home (घरात जर कुणी आजारी असेल तर )
15. Kids, please do not habitual with Fast Food..!!!
16. How toxins enter our body?
17. Useful Websites for Kids (मुलांसाठी उपयुक्त वेबसाइट्स)
18. While Conversation With Kids (मुलांशी संवाद साधताना)
19. Cryos : The First International Sperm Bank In India (भारतातील पहिली आंतरराष्ट्रीय वीर्य बैंक)
20. Stressful Period Before Delivery May Affect the Growth of Your Baby (प्रसूतिपूर्व काळात ताणाचा संतातिवर परिणाम शक्य)
21. Mom and Dad,Please change your attitude (मम्मी आणि पप्पा आता तरी बदला ना!)
22. Calcium Bank for your child
23. Kindergarchy : The Rules by Children
24. How safe are baby products?
25. How important the stickers on baby products?
26. What to do before your baby comes?
27. Baby Products - Money Saving Tips
28. Adults too can suffer from Whooping Cough
29. What's wrong with baby? Yeah! They are crying!
30. Calcium may significantly improve kid's bone health
31. An open letter to all young mom
32. Acne Products : Your Transforming Skincare
33. Some Health Tips for you all
34. How to get cured of diarrhoea - 1
35. What causes Diarrhoea? - 2
36. Tongue display helps recover balance problem
37. Diarrhoea in Children - 3
38. Get prominent skin with Resurgence
38. Homework in progress - 1
39. Homework in Progress : Regular overview - 2
40. Protect your grandparents with Medical Alarm
41. Homework in Progress : Make it a Quiz Time - 3
42. Homework in Progress - Postitive Feedback Counts - 4
43. Get Tea Bonanza at EnglishTeaStore.com
44. Homework in Progress : Break Point - 5
45. Homework in Progress : Do not think twice, just log on - 6
46. A judgement court for kids (शोषित पिढीत मुलांना न्याय लवकर मिळावा म्हणुन ख़ास न्यायालयाची स्थापना)
47. Adult's Rights (लहान मुलांचे अधिकार)
48. Smile Teeth : How important is a child's dental health?
49. Infants : could be a sign that they would develop autism later
50. Get the power of SmoothFitness to be look sexy
51. Sleep with a newborn : Some tips to parents
52. Kid Care Center : The things to know (Kid Care Center - मुलांचे काळजीवाहू घर)
53. Connecting with your kid at school : (मुलांची शाळेतील वर्तवणुक)
54. Helicopter parenting more effective than formal parenting (Helicopter parenting - काय प्रकार आहे हां?)
55. Parents Think : Video Games are good for children (पालकांचे मत : Video Games हे मुलांसाठी चांगले असतात)
56. More former Parents Develop Allround Nestlings
57. How Nurturing Impacts Your Child’s Attribute? (पालकांचे संगोपन कशाप्रकारे मुलांच्या जडणघडणीवर परिणाम करते?)
58. Eminent Tension Levels In Parents Of Children With Impairments (पालकांचे अति टेंशन मुलांना अपंग करते)
59. Important Points Before Leaving Your Children Alone At Home (मुलांना एकटे घरी सोडण्यापुर्वी घ्यायची काळजि)
60. Overweight Kids : Family Based Lifestyle Changes the Situation
61. Is It Right To Reward Children? (मुलांना बक्षिस देणे योग्य आहे का?)
62. Parent Coaching Can Assist Kids To Lose Weight
63. Grandness Of Fathers In The Lives Of Their Children
64. How to talk with your Tweens in Mensturation
65. The Benefits Of Being Ignored : Important for Your Children
66. How Your Parenting Style Benefits Your Child? (तुमच्या पालकत्वाचि स्टाइल मुलाला कशी फायद्याची राहील?)
67. Cheating Kids – A big issue for parents
68. What are the ways that people cheat?
69. What are causes Kids Cheat
70. Truth and Consequences gathered in kid’s mind - 1
71. Truth and Consequences gathered in kid’s mind - 2
72. Kids Just Stop Cheating
73. Brain : The Mental Ability of Your Kid
74. Wonders of Left Brain and Right Brain
75. Getting alongwith teachers (मुलांनो आपल्या टिचर बरोबर रहा)
76. Relationship between Teacher and Students - १ (मुलांचे आणि टीचर्स चे संबंध)
77. What are the Responsibilities of Students? (विद्द्यार्थ्यांच्या जबाबदा-या काय असतात?)
78. First Day of School (शालेचा पहिला दिवस)
79. Just Feel Good on Day One
80. If You Hate the School It's Your Bad Start
81. School's Group Projects
82. While Meeting Together
83. Holding Good Meetins
84. If Problems Arise
85. Home Schooling
86. Advantage and Disadvantage of Home Schooling
87. Kids Scared of Bedbug
88. Honeybee are Fuzzy Insects : Take Care of Your Kids - 1
89. HoneyBee : What measure need to take care of your kid - 2
90. A Terror of Black Widow Spider
91. Brown Recluse Spider
92. A Chigger Bite
93. The Key To Perfect Pitch Lies in Tonal Language
94. Sign of Developing Children
95. Tips To Help You Get Your Kids Hooked On All Kinds Of Reading
96. Go for Variety : Tip 1
97. Tips to develop your children - 2
98. Tips to Develop Your Children - 3
99. Tips to Develop Your Children - 4
100. Game Your Way to Great Arithmetic
101. Spend Your Life
102. Remove Common Bacteria To Cut Risk Of Stomach Cancer Relapse
103. What is a Silent Heart Attack?
104. Heart Attack : No Warning Signs
105. Heart Attack : How Can You Detect It?
106. Heart Attack : Treatment
107. How You Can Prevent Heart Attack?
108. Do Mothers Overfeed Their Babies?
109. Babies Brainer Than Previously Thought
110. Disrupted Gene Causes Mental Retardation
111. Healing Tradition in India - 1
112. Healing Tradition in India : Keep Away disease - 2
113. Some Health Tips
114. In Control - (एक शोध निबंध)
115. Exercise Ineffective In Making Obese Kids Slim
116. Celiac Disease : The Reason - 1
117. Celiac Disease : Signs and Symptoms - 2
118. Celiac Disease : How Do People Know If They Have It? - 3
119. Celiac Disease : How Is It Treated? - 4
120. Celiac Disese : Gluten-Free Foods - 5
121. Support Groups for Celiac Disease - 6
122. Asthma : Is it the reason of Allgergy?
123. Egg Allergy and Kids - 1
124. Egg Allergy : Signs and Symptoms - 2
125. Egg Allergy : How Is It Diagnosed? - 3
126. How Egg Allergy is Treated? - 4
127. Egg Allergy : What to Do? - 5
128. Food Allergy : What Does It Means? - 1
129. Food Allergy : What Are The Reactions? - 2
130. Food Allergy : How Do You Know if You Have One? - 3
131. Food Allergy : What Will the Doctor Do? - 4
132. How Are Food Allergies Treated? - 5
133. Food Allergy : Have a Plan - 6
134. Living With Food Allergies - 7
135. What Are Hives : Is It Patches Of Skin? - 1
136. Why Do I Get Hives? - 2
137. What Will Doctor Do With Hives? - 3
138. Can I Prevent Hives? - 4
139. Trouble of Lactose Intolerance in Kids - 1
140. Who Gets Lactose Intolerance and Why? - 2
141. If You Have Lactose Intolerance - 3
142. Doctor's Action Against Lactose Intolerance - 4
143. How to Live With Lactose Intolerance - 5
144. Parents to track their child's performance at school online
145. Allergy : A Chain Reaction
146. Sneezing and Wheezing
147. Allergy : Symptoms
148. Why Kids affected with Allergies?
149. Why Kids affected with Allergies?
150. How one can identify if he has allergies?
151. How to take a control on allergies?
152. How To Fight With Allergy?
153. Can Nuts and Peanuts causes to Allergy?
154. When Someone Has Food Allergy
155. What Are The Allergic Reactions?
156. How To Diagnose Nut or Peanut Allergy?
157. How to treat with Nut or peanut allergies?
158. How to prepare an emergency plan for nut or peanut allergy?
159. How to handle Nut and Peanut Allergy?
160. Asthma : A Breathing Tubes
161. Who Affects Asthma?
162. What Does an Asthma Burst Out?
163. Treating with Asthma
164. Asthma : Inhaler a Medicine
165. Can Asthmetic Kids Play?
166. Asthma : A Spark Off
167. How to Manage Asthma?
168. Asthma : An Irritating Thing
169. Weather can also be a reason for Asthma!
170. Kinds of Allergies are more likely to have Asthma
171. Asthma : What is a Burst Out?
172. How to handle Asthma Burst outs?
173. Asthma Medicines : Get to know the work of it
174. Keep Your Pet Away In Asthma
175. How Weather affect on Asthma
176. Dirty Air and Asthma : The Relation
177. What You Can Do In Asthma?
178. Asthma and School
179. Close Relation Between Smoking and Asthma
180. Smoking Is Injurious To Health
181. Your Barbie Doll Daughter - 1
182. Barbie Doll's Teenage - 2
183. Your Daughter Become a Hannah Montana - 3
184. The Only God You Can See!!!
185. Swine Flu : Sign and Symptoms - 1
186. More Info on Swine Flu - 2
187. Safety Requirement on Swine Flu - 3
188. Travel Health in Swine Flu - 4
189. Swine Flu : Sneezing and Coughing - 5
190. First Swine Flu Death in India, Pune - 6
190. Symptoms of SWINE FLU - 7
191. Swine Flu : Indians, Please Do Not Panic - 8
192. Swine Flu : At Glance - 9
193. Reason to spread Swine Flu - 10
194. Swine Flu : Precautions - 11
195. Health Management Through Clapping
196. Drink Water On Empty Stomach
197. Handling Your Teenager - 1
198. Handling Your Teenagers - 2
199. Handling Your Teenagers - 3
200. Handling Your Teenagers - 4
201. Discuss with your kid about the Financial Crisis
202. Parenting : The way you interact with your kid
203. You Must Take Care About Mental, Physical and Spiritual Conditions of Your Children
204. Just Avoid The Blames!
205. Techniques To Handle Notoriously Screaming Children!
206. Handle Your Kids With The Most Natural Way - 1
207. Handle Your Kids With The Most Natural Way - 2
208. Delight Your Children
209. Quick and energetic Children: Good or Bad?
210. Children's Habits : A Critical Issue for Parents
211. Prepare Your Children To Become A Skilled Athletic
212. Establish A Conditioned Response in Your Children

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Children's Habits : A Critical Issue for Parents


As children grow, they start picking up ideas from the environment and especially, from people around them. They store those ideas in their mind and out of those, some become the benchmark for judging other ideas, people and objects. They are at a stage when they don’t really know much about life and that could be very disturbing at times. Meanwhile they grasp ideas fast, they also build likes/dislikes/habits which stay with them for a long time if not changed.

And some of those likings/dis-likings/habits could have an adverse effect on their physical, mental and spiritual health as well as a bad effect to their future well-being. As a parent, you understand that very well and that might be a concern for you.

I would say “Relax!”

A good parent is one who knows how to lead themselves and their children to the right path.

There are some four steps that can help you change their likings/dis-likings/habits:

Sit with your children as much as possible or rather start playing with your children as often as you can. Make them feel you are not just a parent but you wish them well always. They will slowly start trusting you more as a friend which will further lead you to being accepted as a trustworthy parent by your children.

Once you have built a rapport or a strong connection, you must clarify their doubts and try to realistically answer as many questions as possible. Once they start asking you questions and there might be a few answers from your end that can help you build your respectful image in front of your child.

They start looking forward to you as an inspiration. Now, it is your duty to create an urge within them to know more in life. Moreover, they have just started listening to you. That is a very good sign. That proves you can now easily change their likings/dis-likings/habits to a great extent though the inner engineering of sensual system might take a little more time than normal to accept the initiative of making changes in their lives.

Let them take their time. You must not force them to change nor criticize them to change. Let them build a self-communicative environment within themselves that helps them to make best friends with themselves. That will help them get more comfortable while handling their responsibilities at hand. Once they get more comfortable handling themselves, they will automatically want to change their habits/likings/dis-likings naturally and as soon as possible.

Remember, a demanding parent or a parent with a lot of expectations from their children can never change their children in any way positively nor can they be successful in their relationships with their children. A parent's hyper-active behavior can in fact infest their child’s behavior with negative thinking, immorality, rebelling and hatred. Ultimately, Choice Is Your’s.

Top 5 Questions and Answers on "Children's Habits : A Critical Issue For Parents"

1. Q: Why are children's habits a critical issue for parents?
Answer: Children's habits are crucial because they greatly impact their physical, mental, and spiritual well-being, as well as their future prospects.

2. Q: What role does trust play in addressing children's habits?
Answer: Trust is essential as it enables parents to influence their children positively and guide them towards better habits.

3. Q: How can parents inspire their children to change their habits?
Answer: Parents can inspire change by creating an environment of curiosity and self-discovery, encouraging their children to want to improve themselves.

4. Q: Why is it important for parents not to force or criticize their children's habit changes?
Answer: Forcing or criticizing children can lead to negative outcomes and hinder the development of a positive parent-child relationship.

5. Q: What can happen if parents have unrealistic expectations or are too demanding regarding their children's habits?
Answer: Unrealistic expectations and excessive demands from parents can result in negative behaviors like rebellion, immorality, and strained relationships with their children.

Related Health Articles:

01. Child's Global Fleshiness : (मुलांमधिल लट्ठपणाचा जागतिक रोग) - १
02. Child's Global Fleshiness : Child's Global Fleshiness : (मुलांमधिल लट्ठपणाचा जागतिक रोग) - २
03. Child's Global Fleshiness : How to measure weight? (वजन कसे मोजावे?) - ३
04. Kid's Breakfast (मुलांचा खाऊ )
05. Be aware about kid's fever (मुलांचे तापेपासून स्वंरक्षण)
06. ICU : Ice Cream Unit
07. A Solution on Bed Weting : Homeopathy (मुलांच्या बेड वेटिंगवर उपाय)
08. How to measure weight? (वजन कसे मोजावे?) - ३
09. Sweet Medicine on Maleriya (मलेरियावर गोड औषध)
10. Kids and Rules of Massage (मुले आणि मालिश करण्याचे नियम)
11. What is the importance of beauty sleep in your kid's life? (मुलांसाठी झोप किती महत्वाची?)
12. Anti Oxidents : Keep Disease Away (एंटी आँक्सिडेंटस : दूर ठेवा आजारपणाच्या तक्रारी)
13. Milk : The Best Food Forever! (दूध एक उत्तम आहार)
14. If someone afflicted at home (घरात जर कुणी आजारी असेल तर )
15. Kids, please do not habitual with Fast Food..!!!
16. How toxins enter our body?
17. Useful Websites for Kids (मुलांसाठी उपयुक्त वेबसाइट्स)
18. While Conversation With Kids (मुलांशी संवाद साधताना)
19. Cryos : The First International Sperm Bank In India (भारतातील पहिली आंतरराष्ट्रीय वीर्य बैंक)
20. Stressful Period Before Delivery May Affect the Growth of Your Baby (प्रसूतिपूर्व काळात ताणाचा संतातिवर परिणाम शक्य)
21. Mom and Dad,Please change your attitude (मम्मी आणि पप्पा आता तरी बदला ना!)
22. Calcium Bank for your child
23. Kindergarchy : The Rules by Children
24. How safe are baby products?
25. How important the stickers on baby products?
26. What to do before your baby comes?
27. Baby Products - Money Saving Tips
28. Adults too can suffer from Whooping Cough
29. What's wrong with baby? Yeah! They are crying!
30. Calcium may significantly improve kid's bone health
31. An open letter to all young mom
32. Acne Products : Your Transforming Skincare
33. Some Health Tips for you all
34. How to get cured of diarrhoea - 1
35. What causes Diarrhoea? - 2
36. Tongue display helps recover balance problem
37. Diarrhoea in Children - 3
38. Get prominent skin with Resurgence
38. Homework in progress - 1
39. Homework in Progress : Regular overview - 2
40. Protect your grandparents with Medical Alarm
41. Homework in Progress : Make it a Quiz Time - 3
42. Homework in Progress - Postitive Feedback Counts - 4
43. Get Tea Bonanza at EnglishTeaStore.com
44. Homework in Progress : Break Point - 5
45. Homework in Progress : Do not think twice, just log on - 6
46. A judgement court for kids (शोषित पिढीत मुलांना न्याय लवकर मिळावा म्हणुन ख़ास न्यायालयाची स्थापना)
47. Adult's Rights (लहान मुलांचे अधिकार)
48. Smile Teeth : How important is a child's dental health?
49. Infants : could be a sign that they would develop autism later
50. Get the power of SmoothFitness to be look sexy
51. Sleep with a newborn : Some tips to parents
52. Kid Care Center : The things to know (Kid Care Center - मुलांचे काळजीवाहू घर)
53. Connecting with your kid at school : (मुलांची शाळेतील वर्तवणुक)
54. Helicopter parenting more effective than formal parenting (Helicopter parenting - काय प्रकार आहे हां?)
55. Parents Think : Video Games are good for children (पालकांचे मत : Video Games हे मुलांसाठी चांगले असतात)
56. More former Parents Develop Allround Nestlings
57. How Nurturing Impacts Your Child’s Attribute? (पालकांचे संगोपन कशाप्रकारे मुलांच्या जडणघडणीवर परिणाम करते?)
58. Eminent Tension Levels In Parents Of Children With Impairments (पालकांचे अति टेंशन मुलांना अपंग करते)
59. Important Points Before Leaving Your Children Alone At Home (मुलांना एकटे घरी सोडण्यापुर्वी घ्यायची काळजि)
60. Overweight Kids : Family Based Lifestyle Changes the Situation
61. Is It Right To Reward Children? (मुलांना बक्षिस देणे योग्य आहे का?)
62. Parent Coaching Can Assist Kids To Lose Weight
63. Grandness Of Fathers In The Lives Of Their Children
64. How to talk with your Tweens in Mensturation
65. The Benefits Of Being Ignored : Important for Your Children
66. How Your Parenting Style Benefits Your Child? (तुमच्या पालकत्वाचि स्टाइल मुलाला कशी फायद्याची राहील?)
67. Cheating Kids – A big issue for parents
68. What are the ways that people cheat?
69. What are causes Kids Cheat
70. Truth and Consequences gathered in kid’s mind - 1
71. Truth and Consequences gathered in kid’s mind - 2
72. Kids Just Stop Cheating
73. Brain : The Mental Ability of Your Kid
74. Wonders of Left Brain and Right Brain
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172. How to handle Asthma Burst outs?
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177. What You Can Do In Asthma?
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208. Delight Your Children
209. Quick and energetic Children: Good or Bad?

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Quick and energetic Children: Good or Bad?


Children are innocent and spanking them encourages your child to behave worse. You cannot beat a child just because he/she is crying incessantly for something or some reason even if it gets too irritating.

There will be situations wherein:

Your child behaves irrationally.
Your child does not respond properly.
Your child does not perform adequate responsibilities responsibly.
Your child keeps disturbing you all the time.
Your child is demanding your attention.
Your child did something that they shouldn’t.

“Whatever the situation, you must NOT spank your child.”

As they grow you wish to make them learn to behave responsibly. Thus, you must teach them that spanking other people isn’t good at all. There can be an exceptional situation such as when someone spanks them, they can return the favor to defend themselves. But that too should be avoided if possible. There can be another exception too. When they behave worse and highly abusive in any manner, you can spank them.


Remember, when you spill anger on other people in front of your child or spill anger over your child, your child models your thought process and performs accordingly. A child thinks that whatever their parents do is okay even if the parent is encouraging violent behavior.

Discipline cannot be encouraged through means of physical punishment. It has to be encouraged through peaceful means.

Parents must not teach their children that “Anger is good” and “Violence is okay” in any form. Don’t show off your anger in front of your children. Learning so, they tend to get worse than ever. Avoid spanking your child at all costs so as to not encourage bad behavior from your children. Be A Good Parent Today! Happy Parenting!

Top 5 Questions and Answers on "Quick and Energetic Children - Good or Bad?"

1. Question: Are quick and energetic children considered good or bad?
Answer: Quick and energetic children can be both good and challenging, depending on how their energy is channeled and managed.

2. Question: What are the advantages of having quick and energetic children?
Answer: Quick and energetic children often exhibit enthusiasm, creativity, and a zest for life, which can be positive traits for their development.

3. Question: How can parents handle the challenges of raising highly active children?
Answer: Parents can manage energetic children by providing structure, encouraging physical activity, and teaching them to focus their energy in productive ways.

4. Question: Are there potential downsides to having overly active children?
Answer: Yes, overly active children may struggle with impulse control and concentration, which can pose challenges at school and in social situations.

5. Question: What strategies can parents use to help their quick and energetic children thrive?
Answer: Parents can promote a balanced lifestyle for energetic children by offering a mix of physical activities, a consistent routine, and opportunities for creative expression.

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